This year, I engaged in a more systematic process to help me take things less personally than I ever have before. In this newsletter, I share some of my thoughts with you to try for yourself.
1.Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly when you are being confronted.
2.Don’t make assumptions about judgment or criticism seemingly directed at you. Maybe it’s not about you at all, but about them and their own projected perceptions. In fact, it’s almost always about them, their issues, their needs, and their desire to control you and/or a situation.
Good advice, Arun. A couple of Dont’s
1.Don’t jump to conclusions too quickly when you are being confronted.
2.Don’t make assumptions about judgment or criticism seemingly directed at you. Maybe it’s not about you at all, but about them and their own projected perceptions. In fact, it’s almost always about them, their issues, their needs, and their desire to control you and/or a situation.